While tragedy can easily happen to any of us when we least expect it, the Bible reminds us that we are not alone. Jesus Himself was acquainted with grief and sorrows (Isaiah 53:3). He is God with us (Matthew 1:23). He loves us and cares for us (1 Peter 5:7). When we remind ourselves of this, we equip ourselves to become the hands and feet of Jesus - to step into others’ grief and serve them in the process (Romans 12:15).
The next time you or someone in the LifeGroup experiences tragedy, follow the steps below:
1. LifeGroup leader reaches out to the LifeGroup, Coach, or pastor as appropriate.
If the leader has a tragedy, the Coach may be more involved
2. The LifeGroup leader or designated person (Core Group) assesses the need.
As always the main care philosophy is employed, “When in doubt, be there and call your coach.”
3. Gather the group together to pray
Prayer reminds us that all the best plans are ultimately in the sovereign hands of Jesus who loves us and cares for us.
4. Assign a care point person to stay connected to the person(s):
Keeping the LifeGroup up-to-date.
Communication of needs of those affected.
Weekly contact and appropriate follow-up.
5. Assigning the right person to handle logistics:
Meal Train
Transportation
Childcare
Funeral arrangements
Visits
Communication that includes (or not) the person experiencing tragedy
6. Help the person grieve
Connect with others who have gone through a similar experience
Set up counseling
7. Remember the event long-term
Set reminders on a calendar (weeks, months, and recurring yearly)
Care point person follow up on counseling and care
Group send encouragement
Encourage the person to process as needed with the group
Consider significant holidays that may affect the person