How to Handle Tragedy 

While tragedy can easily happen to any of us when we least expect it, the Bible reminds us that we are not alone. Jesus Himself was acquainted with grief and sorrows (Isaiah 53:3). He is God with us (Matthew 1:23). He loves us and cares for us (1 Peter 5:7). When we remind ourselves of this, we equip ourselves to become the hands and feet of Jesus - to step into others’ grief and serve them in the process (Romans 12:15).

The next time you or someone in the LifeGroup experiences tragedy, follow the steps below:

1. LifeGroup leader reaches out to the LifeGroup, Coach, or pastor as appropriate.

If the leader has a tragedy, the Coach may be more involved 

2. The LifeGroup leader or designated person (Core Group) assesses the need.

As always the main care philosophy is employed, “When in doubt, be there and call your coach.”

3. Gather the group together to pray

Prayer reminds us that all the best plans are ultimately in the sovereign hands of Jesus who loves us and cares for us.

4. Assign a care point person to stay connected to the person(s):

  • Keeping the LifeGroup up-to-date.

  • Communication of needs of those affected. 

  • Weekly contact and appropriate follow-up. 

5. Assigning the right person to handle logistics:

  • Meal Train

  • Transportation

  • Childcare

  • Funeral arrangements

  • Visits

  • Communication that includes (or not) the person experiencing tragedy

6. Help the person grieve

  • Connect with others who have gone through a similar experience

  • Set up counseling

7. Remember the event long-term

  • Set reminders on a calendar (weeks, months, and recurring yearly)

  • Care point person follow up on counseling and care

  • Group send encouragement

  • Encourage the person to process as needed with the group

  • Consider significant holidays that may affect the person