Mark 9:33-35 and Mark 10:35-45.
In both of these passages, Jesus flips the script and redefines greatness for his disciples and for us:
Mark 9:35: “If anyone would be first, he must be last of all and servant of all.”
Mark 10:43-45: “But whoever would be great among you must be your servant, and whoever would be first among you must be servant of all. For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.”
We all get caught up trying to prove ourselves, compare ourselves, and show ourselves to be better than those around us. A helpful tool is The Princess Test, a questionnaire that helps reveal areas where we functionally believe we should be treated like royalty, instead of like a servant.
The Princess Test:
- I expect life to be smooth and free from burdensome people or problems.
- I often get angry at people for not treating me right, or not acting a certain way toward me.
- I often feel resentful. I feel bitter towards those who have what I want.
- I feel annoyed and slighted when I am asked to do menial tasks.
- I get frustrated when I don’t receive the thanks or notice from people I think I deserve.
- I get upset when I don’t get my way in a group decision.
- I am rarely the first one to offer to help out or serve.
- I find it hard to recover when I am made fun of or my ego is bruised.
- I judge people based on their usefulness or what I think they can add to my life.
- I get mad at God when I don’t think He’s making my life go how it should.
The reality is that we are all enslaved to our own pride and our own desire to be great until we see true greatness crucified on the cross. Only when we come to understand that the greatest servant who ever lived poured out His precious blood as a ransom to pay for us, can we begin to have the real, internal confidence that it takes to serve the people around us.
A huge part of what Serve the City Weekend is about is training us to walk in the new servant greatness identity that Jesus has given us. We are not just spending a weekend doing nice things to feel better about ourselves; we are hoping to foster an ongoing desire to become the servant of all—to love those who have nothing to offer us—to serve those who are hurting, messy, and broken. Because this is exactly what we needed the Son of Man to do for us when we were hurting, messy and broken, and had nothing to offer Him.
It’s not too late to sign up for our Serve the City Weekend! In fact, several sites are still in need of volunteers! We’d love for you to sign up with our North Main Block Party (kid-friendly and a great Saturday-only option!), Ezekiel (kid-friendly), or Transitions teams. Get all the information you need here!